Thursday, September 15, 2022

 Is cheating ever acceptable?

Should cheating be over looked or is it ever acceptable? These are always the questions people ask when the topic comes up. So let us look at this from a alternate perspective.... 

Your teacher calls and says your child got a passing grade on his exam but he and the rest of his class all got the same exact answer incorrect and are all expected of cheating. As a parent are you not going to punish your child. Would you not investigate the circumstance and try to come to a resolution of what happened? If this is the case then you should award yourself the same benefits when in a relationship. Maybe your child was not involved but you have to do your due diligence. 

Alternate scenario: Your best friend sends you pictures of your wife with her arm around another man at the bar. Your wife comes home drunk and reeking of men's cologne. 

Should you not ask questions? Should you not address your concern and see what happened. 

If this is your significant other then you are 100% obligated and own the right to be informed of anything going on. Do you DUE DILIEGENCE. 

But is it ever right to cheat?


No cheating is completely wrong. If you are not happy then leave. Do not rip apart that person or everyone connected to ya'll for guilty pleasure. Be a grown up about the situation. Yes the victim has the right to assess analyze and possibly forgive but they also reserve the right to never deal with you again. So think before you cheat. 

SIGNING OFF - Virtuous Woman

Thursday, September 8, 2022

What is a Virtuous Man/Woman?

A lot of people are confused by the word virtuous with a spiritual or religious woman. Though these things can go hand in hand. That is not the definition of a virtuous woman. 

The definition of virtuosity is that of hold high standards and morals or to be chaste.

Everyone has placed a different idea on what it holds and what people feel it should be. A lot of people associate it with virginity or purity, when others associate it with being kind and giving. While some like myself simply say if you are living the life you think is moral, without judgement and exemplifying what you think is just and fair then you are living in your virtuosity. If you are indeed living a life you will be proud of and will leave a legacy of positivity with people once you Transend then you are indeed living virtuously. 

So readers I ask you. What is your idea of virtuosity in a man or woman? Do you feel someone can live a free, fun and wild life but still be virtuous? Please feel free to comment below. 

SIGNING OFF - Virtuous Woman