Everyone in this world has insecurities. Whether it's the lack of money. Or maybe you just don't like the way you look. Or maybe even that you've had your heart broken a million times and you just don't trust anymore so therefore you're insecure within a relationship.
As someone who's had to work on the insecurities all my life because that level of confidence was not instilled in me as a small child I understand how hard it is to main security within insecurity. I understand how I can cause anxiety and even put you in the state of depression. However it is essential to find key elements in your life that allow you to overcome those insecurities and maintain a secure life even in your insecurities.
One of the main things to maintain security within your insecurities is to always speak to yourself in a positive manner. Whether you do this through affirmations or just speaking to yourself in general in a mirror. You have to make sure that you speak over yourself and only speak positively about yourself. It's okay to recognize your faults as well as your mistakes However dwelling on those can cause self-loathing and heighten the insecurities that you have.
Another thing that is very imperative when trying to maintain security within your insecurities is to never allow anyone to become a part of your circle that downplays or does not recognize your worth. You may have that friend that says they love you but it's always them throwing a smart sarcastic jab at you. Are you going to have a significant other who loves on you and you feel like worships the ground you walk on but consistently has something to say about your appearance or the way you walk talk or react to things. It is important that if you're going to keep these people around you that you make sure it's known how you feel about situations and if they don't correct those things that you get out of that situation immediately.
Lastly it's very important in order to maintain security within your insecurities that you find something that keeps you grounded spiritually. Whether this be prayer, meditation, worship, or any other thing that keeps you spiritually aware. No matter what you believe in, even who don't believe in a God or God's have some form of belief in themselves internally. So it's very important that you find a way to keep yourself grounded and from becoming content and the abuse that we do to ourselves via dwelling on our insecurities.
SIGNING OFF - Virtuous Woman
