For centuries women have been deemed subconsciously unworthy of pleasure. We're marked as whores or promiscuous if we desire to have any kind of sexual pleasure from a partner. The why is this taboo so common all of the world.
The best place to start is with the way society is set up. We live in a world that is a patriarchal society with it being led by christian, cisgender, straight, white, economically well off, men. So in turn if you do not fit into any of those categories or some and not the other then you are deemed not worthy of pleasure. And your worthiness of pleasure decreases with every strike that you have.
For many years how often did we see the movies glorify those people who fit in those categories. They're always happy, they're always pleased and they're always fulfilled. But in turn you always had them paired with a submissive quiet homebody and possibly a mistress that is wild and kinky on the side who is being the whore.
Because these boxes were put in place to keep people on a pyramid scale where the white, cisgender, straight, Christian, will to do man remains of that peak. They had to look like the alpha male and what better way to do that than to create the most natural feeling in the world which is a sexual desire around him.
But enter in a new society. The further we get along in society by creating social norms of bipoc people, those who identify as women and acceptance of various religions and the lgbtqia community the more normal the pleasure will be for everyone.
Why should pleasure be a taboo for anyone. Why should anyone feel ashamed of wanting to have my blowing orgasms with someone that they completely consent with. It should not be a taboo. Wanting to have pleasure and do it in a consensual manner is not wrong. So once we recognize those taboos that were created by this patriarchal society then everyone can get to finding pleasure.
SIGNING OFF - Virtuous Woman
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